It Just Didn’t Feel Right

by Ashley on November 25, 2008

I know everyone loved the new blog design, but it just didn’t feel right to me.  It was too busy and too pretty.  I didn’t feel at home, so I was at a loss for what to do or post. And, the tone of my posts felt off too. I know this is mostly in my head.

It’s just that I’m very particular about my spaces and places. I once read a description of my personality type (INFJ), and it said that I’m intuitive and a dreamer, so the thoughts in my head are all over the place, and the way I deal with that internal chaos is by obsessively ordering and trying to control things in the external world. Obsessive might be too strong of a word, but let’s just say that I’m known for my organizing.

I have a hard time even concentrating when I’m surrounded by clutter and disorder (subjectively defined). At work I have my own cubicle, but I spend a large portion of my shift working at a shared desk. The first thing I do when I arrive is clear away all the clutter and arrange things just the way I like them.

It’s not that I’m rigid. Things don’t always have to be the same. They just have to feel right.

When I was growing up, I would reorganize my room several times of year. I liked the change. It seemed to open up new possibilities and ways of thinking. Plus, I liked the challenge of getting things just right.

My external environment has such a strong impact on the way I think about things. When things are orderly, I feel more comfortable with the crazy, random, abstract, ungrounded thoughts in my head.

So, I’m going to try this design on for size, and see how I feel.

{ 13 comments… read them below or add one }

Sarai November 26, 2008 at 4:07 am

I’m the same way when it comes to my space. Everyone else’s can be completely ridiculous and cluttered, but not mine. I can’t concentrate if things aren’t decluttered and I have room to work.

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t.k.foster November 26, 2008 at 7:13 am

Okay, it’s all good. But I love this design much better. Especially the top. Still, it’s cool if you change it again.

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Katie November 26, 2008 at 7:49 am

I do like this. :)

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liz November 26, 2008 at 9:25 am

i like this one a lot more. the header is very awesome.

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ASecretCollegeStudent November 26, 2008 at 9:57 am

INFJ, eh?

I’ve always liked personality tests for myself, but recently I’ve taken a liking to how other personalities relate to me.

According to my ISTJ profile at http://typelogic.com/ , you *are* an “enigma”.

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Tough Girl Kat November 26, 2008 at 10:10 am

Actually, I like this one a lot more.

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Sophia November 26, 2008 at 11:39 am

you know, that all really does make sense. And this design is really nice too!!
ps. I’m an ISTJ too…although I find you more relatable than enigmatic :)

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Kahea November 26, 2008 at 1:33 pm

i like this blog a lot! the header’s a nice touch.

p.s. i’m also an INFJ. we’re such introverts. lol.

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the almost right word November 29, 2008 at 12:22 pm

I am always looking for the “perfect” theme. I love what you’ve found here. Did you pay for it??

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Ashley November 26, 2008 at 12:09 pm

It’s about room for me too. I have to clear everything to the corners of my desk, so there’s plenty of free space. Glad someone understands. :)

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Ashley November 26, 2008 at 12:12 pm

Yeah, that’s sounds about right. ;) Thanks for the think. I haven’t read through that stuff in a long time.

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Ashley November 26, 2008 at 12:12 pm

Thanks Sophia. :)

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Ashley November 29, 2008 at 12:48 pm

Thanks. Yeah, you have to pay for the thesis theme. They were having a black friday sale, so it was 20% off. It’s highly customizable, especially for people who know what they’re doing. Unfortunately, I don’t. ;) But, I prefer simple themes like this.

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